D in his book Why Men Fake It: The thrill of new sex has maybe given way to the part where I've found a comfortable, familiar rhythm and started to scan the spines on her bookshelf. But it's not your fault! I'm polite and tired, and I have to stop now, but you're great, okay? So why would a man fake it? Though one of my friends—let's call him Tim—offered up the following reason:
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8 Signs He's Faking His Orgasm
But according to pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey, not all penises behave the same way. The answer is simple; by quickly disposing the condom before their partners catch on. Here are nine very interesting revelations. That likely explains why guys with ex-wives may be more apt to feign the heavy breathing and the physical and facial contortions that typically accompany an orgasm. When a woman orgasms, her vaginal muscles do expand and contract, like a fish clenching and unclenching. But there's a world of research out there on things you'd never imagined about men and their orgasms.
Why Women (and Men!) Fake Orgasm
The females can't tell the difference between false and true alarm calls, and males use that to their advantage. But true intimacy means learning the human, imperfect side of your partner, and letting them learn about that side of you. Even though males with real gifts might get up to 45 minutes of mating, the fake gift still distracts the female for 10 to 15 minutes. But after they were together for a while, he told her there must be something wrong with her because she was the only woman he'd had intercourse with who didn't have an orgasm. Could you tell if your man faked an orgasm? Does it really matter? Sex is part of intimacy.
It was never something I consciously took a stance on; I didn't do it to make a political point about women's rights although since women's rights are having a major cultural moment right now, both in the streets and, as a result, in the sheets, it does seem a bit relevant. However, the data also showed that most penises aren't extreme show-ers or grow-ers — when erect, 12 percent penises grew one-third or less and 7 percent doubled in length. Simply faking an orgasm does not mean that they did not enjoy the sexual activity, as sexual pleasure can be plenty enjoyable even when it does not result in an orgasm. Sometimes the chemistry wanes or it's an exhausting day. It's a lot of pressure and it's difficult to focus on really enjoying it enough when you have to think about how your body's turned and where the camera's at.
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